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Friday, December 18, 2015

Boosterrific

“Alright, alright, on the count of three, let’s do the Big World Recess cheer together. Ready? One, two, three!”

We throw our arms out to the side, “Big!”
We make a circle above our heads, “World!”
We bring a fist pump down to our knees, “Recess!”

My pitch, as usual, is about an octave too high, but my enthusiasm is on point. As I close out one of countless team huddles I led this past semester, I am once again reminded how much I love my job at Boosterthon. Everyday the whole grade gathers together to recognize students who earned pledges the night before and to learn a character lesson. As a talent scouting team, we traveled to a different part of the globe every day to meet kid athletes that play with character. 



Once we gathered our scouting report, we contacted Coach Touchdown so we could help him save recess for his poor-sport students.

“Second grade,” I say, hands on my hips, sass in my voice, my facial expression simultaneously playful and scolding. “I know you got more in you than that. Let’s stand on up and try again. Your loudest and proudest, here we go.”

They brim with excitement, their faces redden just a bit, they bend over they are screaming so loud. “BIG WORLD RECESS!!!”

“That’s what I’m talking about! Okay, sit down on those pockets,” I instruct as I fade out the music and bring the hype back down. My voice softens, “Eyes and ears back to your teachers. We’ll see YOU tomorrow!”


When I first decided to move to Houston, I had no idea what I was going to do. I knew about Booster, but I did not know there was a team in Houston until a friend suggested I apply. Even though I warned upfront that I would only be in H-Town for the fall, they hired me. This past semester I was a full-time Program Assistant, and it’s hard to believe my time serving this exceptional company has already come to a close. Boosterthon raises funds for elementary schools by sponsoring fun runs, and leading up to the big day, we do whatever it takes to motivate students to get pledges to help their school. Regular challenges include getting pied in the face, water ballooned, silly strung, duct taped to the wall, and slimed. 

 
Shoutout to my amazing roommate and coworker Tik Tok Taylor in those last two pictures. She is a trooper!

The Incredible Ike, who has biceps the size of Hulk’s, regularly pumps out hundreds of pushups. Usually these nightly challenges are pretty effective, but Boosterthon stands for so much more than impressive financial results. Our mission is to Change the World, and every day, I saw little examples of the impact we make.

It starts with small acts of kindness like showing teachers how much we appreciate them by sticking encouraging Post-It notes on their boxes.

          You Rock! 
          It's a GREAT day to have a great day! 
          You make a difference. 
          Thank you for all you do. 
          Keep it up! 

You come back three months later for a drop by, and those notes are still there. We affirm teachers as much as we can, but it’s also doing the unexpected - delivering 80 special order Sonic drinks for every teacher and making waffles before school. Teachers are always surprised that we’re actually in there with the batter and griddle turning ‘em out. (I’m just thinking, “As opposed to…?”)




It’s things like our give back program, The Great Shoe Take-Off. For every $30 per lap a class earned in pledges, Booster promised to send a pair of shoes around the world to other people that don't have them. We have already sent over 22,000 pairs, and we are only halfway through the school year!

The deepest joy comes from the direct interactions we have with students.

Once after a pep rally a few team members began playing with a special-needs student, passing her one of the Booster prizes - a Big Game soccer ball. She was shy at first, but she began to be more comfortable and eventually began smiling. Twenty minutes later, her teacher told us that it was the first time she had ever seen the girl smile. 

Among many token sayings, my cheerful teammate Tobe the Tiger always throws the condolence, “So much grace, fam” whenever we mess up. One day I got to pass the reminder along. We’re all about high fives at Booster, but sometimes students really put some painful force behind them. When this happens, I gently reprimand them and remind them not to hit too hard. Once, a teacher happened to witness a particularly strong high five. She really lit into the student back in the classroom and forced him to come back and apologize to me. Sweet Gabe. This tough-guy fourth grader was on the brink of tears as he shuffled back into the room. He was deeply remorseful, and I was alarmed. But I reassured him and got to extend a small dose of grace. “Hey, it’s okay buddy! Let it roll off your back. I forgive you, there is grace. Don’t think one more thing of it.”

Everyday during team huddles we celebrate students who got pledges with their families. 
Sweet Caroline shared this story with the team, and it’s one of my favorites:

One student was super mean-spirited to his classmates. Every time we called his name, he stuck his tongue out or yelled, "IN YOUR FACE!" at his friends. One of his best friends, Jack, saw this happen and wanted to do something about it. Instead of being mean back, he went home and asked his mom to help him get pledges to help his school. He told her, "Mom, I want to be the top student in the school so I can show him how to win with a good attitude."  
Last night he called every friend and family member he could think of, and today his name was called. He was the top student in school! When he heard his name he quietly stood without a single mean glance or rude comment to his classmates. He was just excited to help his team reach their goal and send another pair of shoes overseas to a child in need! 
But the biggest prize of all was the smile on his mom's face when she tracked me down to tell me this story. She saw her son set an example of what it means to Play with Humility and wanted to thank me for changing the world in his life. 

Wow! This is one of many Change the World Booster stories, but the significance of our presence and impact really cannot be measured. I served as the Pep Rally DJ at one school and did not return to it until a collection three weeks later. As I walked down the halls in more professional Booster attire, students kept pointing in excitement, greeting me by name. "Look! It's Jungle Jess! She's back!" I was the most surprised of all; I didn't even talk during the Pep Rally, but they remembered me. It was a good reminder of how much these students admire us.


Kids are also downright hilarious. After a cutthroat night of pledging, one set of kindergarteners were kicked off the “Top 3 Grades” Bar Graph we show during team huddles.

“Kindergarteners, where did you go?!” Mighty Makayla asked.
Unable to comprehend beyond the literal, they all chimed in unison, “We’re right here!!”
We both struggled to hold it together through the rest of the huddle.

FaceTimes with Coach Touchdown (e.g. interacting with a scripted recorded video) also cause a lot of confusion. Older students often questioned his “realness.”

“Of COURSE he’s real,” I would say. “We have to FaceTime him because he lives in Atlanta.” Which, you know, is true; I’m sure the Home Office hired some very alive actor this past summer to record our FaceTime reports.

On pep rally days, they also could not fathom how on EARTH my stinky shoe ended up in that small suitcase containing the pledge book. “Jungle Jess, you must be one real prankster!”

Boosterthon was the saving grace of this past fall. It’s the only reason I chose to stay in Houston and stick out those last couple of post-breakup months. The Booster team became my family, and, despite my eagerness to get the heck out of H-Town, I wasn’t ready to leave these fine folks or a job I find so satisfying. They equipped me to be a better servant leader. They valued me as a team member and as a person. They were coworkers, but they were also built in friends and community in a big new city. And alongside them, I got to help change the world.

As I anticipate my transplant across the world and the pursuit of a profession as an educator, I am taking the character plays and world-changer mindset with me. I will Live with Curiosity as I explore as many corners of New Zealand as I can. As I begin student teaching, I will Ride with Confidence by starting small and working my way up to bigger challenges in the classroom. When I become lonely and tired, I will Run with Endurance. Even in the small, everyday things, I want to be a difference maker and a light for Christ. Boosterthon has further prepared me to do so.


My last day Team Houston gave me a frame with everyone's signature inside an outline of the great state of Texas. Rockstars, I will miss you!



#BeatHouston

Saturday, December 5, 2015

Seattle with Le Tre Ragazze

I wanted to go to Mexico. 


Well, really, I just wanted to get out of Houston. Following the breakup two months ago, planning weekend trips was my immediate response, my first defense mechanism to ward off loneliness and secure the bandages I had tenderly begun to dress on my wounded heart. It did not matter that there are millions of other people in Houston, that I didn’t have to go out of my way to avoid crossing paths with Dan. The constant geographical reminders of an ex-boyfriend in the same place as me were still painful. I needed to escape my surroundings and stay busy and distracted. Filling up each weekend in my planner with my own adventures seemed like a good remedy.

As I scanned Southwest special offers, a direct flight to the clear water, tropical cocktails, and cheap hostels of Puerto Vallarta seemed awfully enticing. So I texted my Italy study abroad friends and go-to travel companions Tracey and Mariah. Last January le tre ragazze, or "the three girls," as we like to call ourselves, reunited in California for the classic Highway 1 Pacific coast road trip from San Francisco to Los Angeles. Think magical Big Sur sunsets, sketchy camping, and deep conversations that meandered right along with the curving roads on which we drove. Oh, and flirtatious Italian waiters serving on-the-house wine and tiramisu after closing time. It was the kind of trip that could only happen with three 22-year-old females. 


When we studied in Italy together, I realized pretty early on that Mariah and Tracey are two of my soul friends. Our demographic profiles and a lot of our opinions could not contrast more...Mariah the Midwestern humanitarian; Tracey the west coast, city-chic Indonesian; and Jessica, the family-oriented Charlestonian. But we work well together because we share a common care for people and we like exploring new places. These two are fun, but still responsible. They may be set in their beliefs, but they’re still open-minded. They like a plan, but they will be flexible too. Ultimately, Mariah and Tracey are good company, and despite political, religious, and childhood differences, we make a good trio. If anyone would be up for a spontaneous rendezvous, it would be them.

Apparently plane tickets to the tropical weekend paradise I envisioned were a bit steeper from LA and Chicago than from Houston. I got a text from Tracey.

Did you ever have any desire to go to Seattle?

Well no, not really. Like the other half of Seattle’s Vitamin D deficient population, overcast skies and rain make me sad. But it was a city none of us had visited and plane flights were cheap for all of us, so we went for it.

We booked our flights for the weekend of November 13, and my planning skills kicked in full force (Many thanks to those who offered input). I developed a thorough and over-ambitious itinerary for our two and a half days together, even venturing a couple hours away to hike in Olympic National Park and couchsurf at Lonnie’s commune. That surely would have made for a memorable night! But winter storms squashed any big nature excursions; we were stuck in the city with a forecast that even locals deemed gloomy. Still, all of my color-coded map pins and Google doc shares did end up helping us pack a lot in without much stress.

Seattle still had plenty to offer us, rain or shine.

Some Things We Did 

(…And what you should do if you ever spend a weekend in Seattle)


-Walk Along the Waterfront

This city’s heritage and economy is so closely connected to the water. Absorb views of the port, large ships, fishermen and the commanding ferris wheel.



-Kerry Park - By Day and Night

The Space Needle dominates the skyline from this vantage point, and on a very clear day you can see Mt. Rainier towering behind the city. This is one of the best views of the city, and it’s worth seeing it during the day and lit up at night.


-Ride the Ferry

With so much water, it’s only fitting to spend some time on it.

-Bainbridge Island 

Since you’re already on a ferry, go ahead and make your way over to this quaint, slower-paced town. We had the privilege of staying with my friend Jesse. She took us to Blackbird Bakery and Pegasus Coffee, which made for a cozy, relaxing morning. The maple scone we split at the cafe was melt-in-your-mouth status.

-Pikes Place Market

You have not been to Seattle without wandering through this quintessential daily market. It’s very comparable to Granville Island’s Public Market in Vancouver. Don’t plan on eating too much before or after this visit. Sample away to your heart’s content on fruit, jam, nuts, salsa, and honey. And that Greek yogurt. Man oh man. But, you know, be discreet and respectful; take one taste and move on to the next stand. Go ahead and treat yo’self to a memorable artisan craft, warm apple cider, a Grilled Cheese Sandwich from Beecher’s, and a piroshki just next door.



-Chihuly Garden and Glass 

(and the Needle if you like)

I don’t care if you don’t appreciate art or you don’t consider yourself a museum type of person. DO NOT MISS THIS. It was a highlight for us all. Dale Chihuly and his team have worked for decades to bring more beauty to mankind through creative, colorful glassblowing. His exhibits transport you to another realm. They instill awe, they inspire, and you must go.



There is a combo ticket with the Space Needle right next to it. We didn’t go up, but it is one of those Seattle things to do.


-Parks: Carkeek and Discovery

The sun finally came out on Sunday, so to nature we did go! Bright yellow leaves the size of our faces. Acres on acres of walking trails. It just does the soul some good.




-Portage Bay Brunch

Just take note of the chalkboard when you first enter.



You will with the oatmeal cobbler french toast or veggie frittata. Damn.


-Ballard Locks

These are the most utilized locks in the whole country, transporting boats to and from the salt water of the Puget Sound and the fresh water lakes. Regardless of your engineer knowledge, it’s pretty neat to watch them fill up and empty.

-REI

Seattle is where this God-given store was founded! This is a far more important stop than the first Starbucks for any outdoor enthusiast.

-Coffee. And More Coffee.

But speaking of Starbucks, ditch the corporate and go discover some of your favorite new coffee shops. We finished off our time together at Espresso Vivace.


It was a packed, awesome, friend-filled weekend. It felt like studying abroad again, only in America. I’m glad we chose to explore the Pacific Northwest, a corner of the United States I really knew little about. And for November, I found the temperatures to be surprisingly mild. I don’t know if I could deal with the gloomy weather long-term, but Seattle has the rare characteristic of boasting both water and mountains in close proximity. Truly the best of both worlds; I did really like that. Many people have told me that the summers are glorious, and it makes me want to go back when the daylight hours stretch out late into the evening.

As we ambled along a slippery sidewalk Saturday morning, heads hunched over to avoid a perpetual mist in our faces, I joked, “So…remind me why we’re not laying out on a sandy beach again?” Because let’s be real, Seattle is just about as opposite from Mexico as the three of our personalities are from each other. But here’s the thing — I really didn’t care. 

Seattle was fantastic, but what really mattered was that I was with people who knew me and loved me. Particularly right now, that’s all I really need. Our reunion consisted primarily of smothering Tracey in hugs, which she just loves. 



My heart was full.

That night we didn’t have any serendipitous encounters with strangers, and we didn’t end up dancing with Italian waiters. We didn’t go out at all. We just stopped by Trader Joe’s for a few groceries and a couple of bottles of wine. We stayed in at our Air BNB, and we talked as only real friends can. Before bed I pulled out the last pieces of Perugian bacci chocolate kisses Tracey had sent me as a break up condolence. And it was perfect.

When we said goodbye at the end of our Capitalia trip, I did not know the next time we would see each other. Perhaps in New Zealand, or even after that. I certainly did not think it was going to be so soon. But I am grateful. In the wake of losing one friend, I have been reminded of the countless more I still have, including Tracey and Mariah. Being with them in Seattle was just right. Even if it was not Mexico.



Thursday, November 26, 2015

Gratitude

Thanksgiving is such a great holiday. There's not any religious controversy, little commercialization...just the gathering of family and friends, good eats, and remembering all of the blessings we have to be grateful for. And though the early settlers celebrating the first harvest did not partake in food-induced afternoon coma or NFL football games, the purpose of Thanksgiving is the same. We approach this holiday with an extra dose of gratitude. It's a good reminder of a posture we can choose not just the fourth Thursday of November, but everyday. 

Beyond material blessings, we can focus on the four things that went wrong in a day, or we can be grateful for the myriad "rights" that operate just fine without us ever noticing. I listened to a podcast a few weeks ago about a man who intentionally started being grateful for everything in his life, including the really arbitrary things. He pushed the elevator button. As the doors opened, he mentally acknowledged his gratitude that they functioned properly. And he did the same thing as he ascended. "Thank you, elevator, for taking me up so quickly and not breaking down." It's silly, and it takes a lot of practice to be that grateful for little things in our lives. But giving thanks is all over the Bible. It aligns with God's character and his desire for us to give him glory.

Grateful people tend to be happier, too. I think it follows that the more we acknowledge everything that we have to be grateful for, the happier our outlook is, no matter our circumstances. Gratitude is a perspective, it's a choice for how to approach how we live.

So today I wrote a Thankful list. The order is not edited. It's a little shameful that "no homework" falls way before "Jesus," but this is the order I brainstormed. I suppose it's a pretty accurate reflection of my priorities and thoughts, skewed as my sinful heart may be.

Much of it is silly. But the items listed are still real, and I still give thanks. Color makes the world brighter, hot cups of tea are one of my small joys of life, and kitchen appliances have revolutionized my ability to store and cook food. 

Happy Thanksgiving. May you find blessings and opportunities for gratitude all around you, this day and always.

Among much else, 

I am thankful for…


the Compton Clan
     Hoffa’s ridiculousness and provision
     Mama’s listening ear
     Georgia’s vivacity
     Rosa Marie’s gentleness. And her style.
     Cain’s humor
extended family
slow days
no homework
rest
feelings
friends - near and far, new and old
Sugah Cain
South Carolina
home
the beach
the lowcountry
Pearl the CRV
plane flights
literature
food and feasts
long walks
sunny days
joy
relationships
breakups
love
redemption
Jesus
the gospel
new days
gifts
affection
FaceTime
Boosterthon
beds
mountain trails
fall leaves
crisp days
mac computers
freedom
America
security
my health
fun trips
hot drinks
bon fires
smiles
warm socks
down coats
Booster Baes
Church
new seasons
New Zealand
callings
passions
abundance
Instagram
outdoor gear
beauty
water
strength
kindness
honesty
waterfalls
mountains
camp
disciplers
disciples
communication
happiness
movies
tennis shoes
contact lenses
makeup
lattes
salad
Scripture
art
ceramics
rainy days
wisdom
peace
that I am not in charge
sisterhood
snuggling
dentists
healthcare
light
encounters that seem serendipitous
remembering all that God has done
the cross
forgiveness
grocery stores
online shopping
2 day shipping
children
the chance to change the world
the chance to make a difference
the fact that individuals matter
hope
dancing
scholarships
exploring
crying
laughing
support
money
color
sweet potato casserole
pets
nalgene bottles
toiletries
all the extra
different cultures
ethnic food
new experiences
changed mindsets
the ability to think
safety
my kindle
journals
my pillow
household appliances
electricity
education
caring people
peanut butter
apples
avocados
guacamole
opinions
long conversations
traveling
massages
charities
free will
the 21st century
my iPhone
wine
beer
margaritas
greek yogurt
encouragement
Facebook
oatmeal
fresh-baked bread
sunrooms
waterfront porches
music
964 Tall Pine Rd
my apartment in Houston
restaurants
second chances
seasons
running
biking
the animal kingdom
justice
hammocks
sunrises
sunsets
memories
courage
lessons learned
stories
testimonies
clean air
lungs
rocking chairs
hymns
contentment